Ugh. I’m sorry to hear this. She sounds like kind of a control freak. I am allergic to cats and have two of them! I learned of the allergy way after I adopted them, but still. Antihistamines and my usual inhaler I’ve taken for years, and what do you know, I can live problem-free 24/7 with two long haired cats! Seriously, it sounds like she’s playing your dad. Hopefully he’ll figure that out sooner or later and you’ll get your baby back.