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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t understand how can one seduce you into love?
What you can try is not to love the fantasy or love the feeling of excitement but love a person for human qualities they possessed. You wanted to marry that other man because you fell something. Whatever that something was wasn’t based in reality. Why would you want to marry someone who drinks does drugs doesn’t work and steal from you? That’s the last person you should get engaged to. Clearly desire to marry that unsuitable partner wasn’t based on reality.
Try not to base your feelings for this man on chemistry or how he looks at you but rather on what kind of person he is?
Listen, we all love to love. Not just Libras. Lol I’ve never even heard that love is Libras trademark. In fact people born in all 12 months love to love. It’s everyone’s trademark. Don’t put too much trust into “I do this because that’s who I am”. Use logic. We all love to love. You can fall in love with wrong person of course like many others, but use logic not to end up entangled with wrong people. Figure out who the person is before making big decisions
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Thanks, Divine. I can always count on you to be brutally honest and upfront!!
I appreciate and respect your perspective.
I guess I was in love the fantasy with regards to my ex. Of course I wouldn't marry him now, or even want someone remotely like him. He was wrong for me in every way.
As far as the new guy, I could not figure out what this deep look was about, but my gut was that it was a look of seduction of sorts. Maybe I am off-based, but I think when someone wants you to fall for them, it can be a seduction. It was just my gut feeling. I told him that I fall in love easily, and that if we slept together, I may fall for him.. he knows this already. I was a bit tipsy when I told him that, LOL.
I will get to know his character and him as a person before deciding whether is worthy of my heart and trust. I will not just base this one on chemistry. I want to know his character and his heart. Is he a good person? Can he be supportive? Does he have strong morals and a strong character? Is he reliable? Etc.
As far as Libras go, it is said in our profile that Libras prefer to be in relationships. That Libras love to love:
"Libra governs partnerships, relationships and close associations..... ruled by Venus, the goddess of love and beauty... the Libra is a hopeless romantic who loves being in love."
I feel that is true for me. I know we all love to love and that is most certainly not unique to me or Libras, but I do prefer to be in a relationship and am a true love bug. I fall in love easily.