It gets a bit worse. My ex wife's first marriage's divorce wasn't finalized for 8 more months when we started dating the first time.
And worse still, but this one's not her fault. The only other woman I've ever thought I was serious about was emotionally unavailable because she was still heavily in her grief process over her father.
I'm apparently a magnet for unhealthy relationshits.
I've known things weren't right before but today I'm kind of in the throws of yucky feelings over this.