Well due to the personal nature of the situation i won’t go into too many details but basically this is the jest. My partner had a bit of a problem and she allowed that problem to happen around her daughter, which then got a lot of notice from authorities, which ultimately resulted in my ex wife stating that she was to not ever be around the children. I was fighting it for about 3 months but finally during one of my ex’s mood swings she freaked out and dumped me. It just so happened that i was going to court a couple days later so I told my lawyer what happened and it got back to my ex that we had broken up. I know that this break would have been a small temporary one, but I legally couldn’t lie about it at that point. It’s just been super hard cause this woman was the love of my life. I’m prettty sure at this point she has already moved on because that’s basically what happens every single time we have a break up. Thing is, when we reconcile she says it meant nothing to her or she was just killing time. I think it’s the bpd coming out needing that constant validation, but it really sucks because in my eyes she was everything and I’ve always tried to give her all the validation she needed. Anyways I’m rambling now lol. For now, i can’t do anything about it so I’m just gonna work on my codependency issues and hope that one day we can both be in a better place and make things work. At the end of the day, I’ve always said she was my soul mate and although things were brutal at times, she was always worth any amount of effort. Thanks for listening