societal pressures make you feel like your a loser when your different then their "norm". Normally people lose their virginity's late teens, early 20's...whatever...according to the media, entertainment, and society. The truth is there is no norm on this issue your facing so don't feel your a loser. If you've waited this long then continue waiting till you find the one you love. It'll be worth the wait when it happens. Don't be so hard on yourself.