I forgot to add to the post last night, but I began attending Co-dependent Annoymous which was interesting, but I found the group of people to not quite fit for me. Has anyone attended something similar to that which may also be helpful. I am looking for a 12 step based system as Ive read that is one of the best ways to enhance recovery. Damn ex had been suggesting I do the steps and I never really thought it would have helped in my situation. I hate when she was right lol.