I’ve felt that way and I agree that certain situations a T can’t change. He orshe can help you view things differently or perhaps some might offer alternatives or suggestions. My T was a big believer in making changes. That’s a great thing and positive thinking is always a plus. However, there are certain situations that just exist and not much can be done. We don’t quite see eye to eye on such topics but that’s also because certain situations you really need to experience in order to understand.

Ts can try to help with how you react due to your circumstance and offer coping methods but to actually “fix” certain issues is not feasible.