The way your respond is that you tell yourself you deserve better and you deserve to be with someone who treat you with respect and love.
You can't change him, what you can do it to make sure you don't allow this kind abuse to continue because it can escalate into a worst situation. Verbally abuse can escalate into physical abuse.
Your need to think about if this is how you want to continue living your life or if you want to choose a life filled with respect, understanding and love.
Hope things will ger better for you and take care.
You are not alone.!😀😀