Honestly... I don't know the answer to your question. I'm just an old man who has struggled with gender identity issues my entire life. Way back when I was young, & where I grew up, there were boys & there were girls. And if you didn't fit neatly into one of those categories, you darned well kept it to yourself if you knew what was good for you.

I'm completely perplexed by all of this gender identity & sexual orientation spectrum stuff. The good thing, in my case, is that I'm now too old for it all to make any difference. But I have sympathy for anyone who is trying to figure it all out. I had always assumed that, as I got older, all of my gender identity issues would gradually fall away. Unfortunately that has not turned out to be the case. If anything they seem to be getting more difficult to deal with. But I wish you well in your efforts to define yourself.