I asked T if I could bring her something back from my trip overseas to visit my partner. I told her I might be picking up stuff for friends too. She knows how significant the trip is given my issues. She suggested a postcard from where I'm going and asked me to draw something on it and note what feelings I have when drawing.
Initially I wanted to get her a bag of good coffee from where I'm headed, but I'm not sure she'd accept that due to the price. She's a coffee lover, but I was too shy to ask if she'd accept a bag.