Hey everyone! I️ don’t know if this is the correct forum but I’m curious how you feel about identity first vs person first language?

Examples:
Identity first = autistic person
Person first = person with autism

personally, I prefer identity first because I think sayin “with autism” makes it sound like i️m suffering from it or it’s an illness, anyways I’m curious what you all think about it? or if you just don’t mind either way