I guess what I'm not getting is why you're reacting this way. This woman is your therapist. . .a service provider. NOT YOUR FRIEND. And here you're reacting like you would if a good friend didn't "get you." This is why i disagree with T's who allow email. When they don't respond (b/c they feel they shouldn't, or b/c it's crossing boundaries) then they catch hell from clients.

The entire point of client-therapist relationship is to work out the CLIENT'S issues IN therapy. . .not on the phone, not via email. IN THERAPY.

Your therapist can't be your savior. Ever. Her job is to teach you to how to work out your problems and get to the point of doing so independently.

I don't know how old you are, but it seems from your writing that maybe you're a young lady. Can you talk to your parents about this? Maybe a high school guidance counselor? Someone who isn't involved, who might be able to look at it from a third person perspective?

I'm sorry to be harsh, but this is one of those things that if you don't work it out. . .if you walk away and go to a new therapist, you're just going to have the same problems again with unreachable expectations.