Thread: Hugging your T
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Old Dec 15, 2017, 07:09 PM
Fernwehxx Fernwehxx is offline
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Originally Posted by OldTaylor View Post
So we need to love our surgeons, our butchers, our bakers, and other providers of goods and services? We certainly need or prefer at least a small degree of intimacy with each of these? Do we hug the butcher who provides us with exceptional cuts of meat? And what of the grocer? Do we love him as well?
I am in no way close to any of these people. I wouldn't touch anyone I do not feel a close connection to. I am from a culture where people are more distanced in general. If I bond with people, physical closeness cones with it. And there are only a handful of people im close to. If im not close to a T, theres no point in therapy since I wouldnt just spill my guts to anyone out there. So, why would you assume every person is the same? Dont we have different relationships with different people? All thise people you mwntioned. I don't even knoq or wanna know. If your relationship to your T is like the one to your butcher.., well, thats odd and not just because im a vegan.
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