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The fact is that they now feel that they have to protect you because you haven't change the situation.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> You know, I've been just recently noticing this in them. They ask me with such concern-- how *I'm* doing... when I think they shouldn't be wondering that at their age.
wow- How did you know they were like that? you are quite insightful!

However, this makes me feel even more guilty.... man, is that pathetic?? I don't know...... it all is confusing and just makes me feel so very bad all around.

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You have a lot of decisions to make.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> yea, ugh..... I know. am also so scared........

thank you for replying..... I wish I could have all of you guys in my home with me when I get to shaking about this all......

thank you-- everyone.

mandy