I don't really care if people know that I see T1. I refer people to him and tell them that I see him. His "office" is in a small house on a farm that his family owns on a fairly busy road. Anyone who drives by there between 8 and 9 on Mondays or Fridays has seen my car there.

But yes, in a town our size, most people know what H and I do for a living. And that it doesn't involve office buildings in the nearby cities. And I think small town people are probably nosier-they might well ask "how did you meet x?" and that could be awkward.