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mandyfins said:
They ask me with such concern-- how *I'm* doing... when I think they shouldn't be wondering that at their age.
However, this makes me feel even more guilty.... man, is that pathetic?? I don't know...... it all is confusing and just makes me feel so very bad all around.

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Mandy.....instead of feeling guilty....find your pride in knowing that you raised two wonderful sons who are empathetic and care for you, their mom.

Regardless of their age and where they are in life at the moment, the three of you can lean on each other for support. They are becoming young men and for them to learn how to be supportive a woman in difficult times is a wonderful thing even if the situation is less than perfect.

Mandy dear, leaning on the 2 boys that you have raised is not necessarily a bad thing. Granted there are things that are between you and your husband and don't need to be shared with your sons, but there are still things you can all bond and support on.


sabby