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Old Jan 06, 2005, 08:39 PM
wisewoman wisewoman is offline
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What does breaking the fantasy bond between you and your parents mean? And yes, you need to have a witness to your pain as it was in silence for so long. It's for me like holocost survivers telling their stories on holocost rememberance day. We need to never forget and bear witness, both on a personal level, and for society. it is with exposure to the things that were traumatic for you that they start to lose their power.