Dear iPhone,

I understand that all of us want to be included and part of a group, it helps us hold on to something and seek/extend support when needed and share our joys and sorrows.

Personally speaking, I've not been much of a success socially and it has often bothered me - to the extent that I'd end up even more lonely.

Over the years, I've assessed that the qualities I look for in other people in order to befriend them, I should develop them in my own personality. For instance, I would befriend an interesting and happy person and someone who's sad or boring, I'd not want to approach them. Just an example from personal experience. So keep cool and maintain a pleasant outlook. I'm sure people will invite you and befriend you.

One more thing - again personal experience. Sometimes people who we wish to get closer to do not want us (their loss) and on the other hand, there are always people who we push off because we don't like them. Don't get too focused on those who have shut you out and keep an open mind. In the end, we all receive our share of love, joy and friendship; just don't get fixated on the source.