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Old Dec 17, 2017, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted by 20oney View Post
Could be a silly question but I have just terminated with my T for relocation reasons. We had basically just started to get to the good stuff I think. I was letting my walls down a bit and she was starting to get some of the real me.
Then, I decided to throw everything away and move. So we've had to terminate. I am allowed to keep contact and we can have phone sessions. But, I am not sure that I will go for that straight away.

I am really REALLY bad at goodbyes and thank yous. I think it's like a denial thing - if I don't say goodbye, we don't have to do the talking about the end of the relationship thing and acknowledge each other and all that.. I am okay with not being able to say goodbye, as I would like to return one day.

But to say thank you, would be good. It is a very uncomfortable thing for me though. I don't know what to say, how to say it and I don't believe that words can ever do it justice. I also don't want to sounds fake, nor go over the top..

Basically I will probably just leave without saying thank you.

But has anyone got experiences of saying thank you? How did you do it and how did the T react??
How about send a nice therapy book to her office with a thank you note?
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