Hi there -- if I understood you correctly, you're interested in having a real romantic relationship? And you're craving intimacy and affection? My advice: steer clear of married men and keep the boundaries professional AT ALL TIMES. Do not get involved with a married man..... this will only lead to trouble ahead. It never ends well. And you could hurt someone's family in the meantime. NEVER good.

Since you put yourself out there on social media, why not try online dating? Or start dating in general outside of your work environment? Getting involved with men from work can be VERY tricky business. I personally would steer clear of that and find single, available men outside of work.