I agree with the married man thing but not with the workplace one because it is known to be a good place to meet someone. I spend most of my life there with almost 2000 other people and some form relationships etc. It's not a very professional enviroment to be honest, there is a lot of favoritism and it's all about who likes you and who you talk to and people's relationships with each other are often very close. Loads of people flirt with each other, meet after work, it may not be a good thing but taught me a thing or two about non verbal communication and this stuff. I had one guy who I didn't like bc he was too immature who admitted to be in love with me and still is in this state of unrequited love and few trying to do sth me but I wasn't interested. One of them was someone in a power position who kept flirting with me hard but also in a "i can't do this openly" way and his male friends were actually joking from him as once he did something pretty obvious and rather pathetic to himself in a public situation. So it's a really weird enviroment and the reason why I may get so much attention is I'm the youngest there and almost the only single one and I'm a pretty visible person who stands out in looks and intellect. There were two romances between someone superior and his subordinate and nobody was fired so sadly or not, this kinda behaviour is very acceptable. If it wasn't I would really keep my guard always.