Thanks, I will definitely ask my t about it directly when I see her next. Last night I listened again to\ some of the recordings of our sessions because we have been talking about being real not real lately and I feel more okay about it now. Being real or not real has been a theme of my therapy and different parts of me have talked about it a lot. In the last few sessions especially (haha, I guess why that seems to be a bit of a trigger for me at the moment). In the last session my T told parts of me that when parts say other parts are not real it is because that is what they need to believe for now. She said each of them have their own reasons why they need to believe what they believe and it is all very confusing right now but as we sort through it it will become more clear and the parts will gradually get to know the same things.
So I guess she is aware of this real not real issue and doesn't feel like it needs to be diagnosed or whatever. I will try not to worry about being diagnosed with it anymore, it causes me enough worry as it is!