I am there with you, so I completely understand. It is so hard when you realize you have to set up boundaries with your t. My t says that she can't trust me at times because I talk out of both sides, whatever that means. It is just my way of reasoning, I talk things through, but not anymore. Not with the threat of calls to my pdoc, my husband, or the worst-ip.
If whining here helps some, we're here!
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