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Old Dec 17, 2017, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by zoiecat View Post

I would be curious to know what is the correlation between outside contact and attachment to your therapist. From what I read here it seems like sometimes therapist are not doing their clients any favors by continuing to allow all the outside contact. It seems to only perpetuate the need for more contact or more distress by not receiving the intended response. I don't know I'm just curious.
I was not attached to either of the therapists I saw recently - but one gave out email and cell phone and the other gave out cell phone info for outside contact. They exhibited excessive and possibly exaggerated enthusiasm when I contacted them. Once after a motorcycle accident, the second one expressed dismay that I did not call her. I don't know what she could have done or why I would have called her, but nonetheless, she said that it was something clients do.
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Thanks for this!
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