A guy that I was supposed to go out with (casually just for some company), but still, we had plans tonight. I didn't even push the plans, and he texted me this morning saying he would see me right after he drops his kids home with the mother. On the way home he texted me that he was leaving to come back to his house. Just because I got back to his text saying this 20 minutes late, all the sudden I see a text saying, "I'm going to stop by my friend's house. He wants me to have a drink with him." Then later....it's, "Oh, I drank too much. I am just going to stay here tonight."

I don't know.....this guy is 40, I expected maybe just a tiny bit more maturity? It's fine if he wants to see my friends, but I found it really rude that he made plans and even this morning confirmed them, especially since he's been texting me all week, so what's his deal? I know I am not ready for a relationship, but I feel whether it's a friend, co-worker, etc, there needs to be more respect there.