Sister it turns out that the fax I sent my T last week really helped to repair our relationship.

This time he acknowledged that he received it and wanted to know what I wanted him to get out of it. I said I just wanted him to know how I feel about how last week went.

It opened a very beautiful discussion. I was so touched by him last night and we talked through everything and I felt at peace when I left.

Why not try this with your T? I came from a very vulnerable position in the fax and poured my heart out. I have a hard time doing this in person but now it should be easier...

I'm sorry your hurting