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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
...But now I'm realizing their benefit because they help prevent these sorts of misunderstandings and shifts in boundaries that can feel painful to the client, especially if they don't know why they're happening.
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Imo, we are in therapy to safely probe and thereby strengthen the painful parts, not to avoid them. Avoiding them in t just leaves us vulnerable to the same weaknesses IRL.