I would argue that MC already is behaving unethically, albeit in subtler ways than divulging the nature of the countertransference. I don't think it's ethical to be so inconsistent on boundaries with a vulnerable client, or to chop and change on whether or not individual contact is okay. And the implicit encouraging of you to stay in MC also feels a bit manipulative, LT. I know you haven't solicited this discussion in this thread so if you don't want us commenting on it, please say so.