Hm-m-m-m... well... personally I don't really have these kinds of experiences since I'm pretty-much entirely solitary by choice. (But then I'm an older person & it works for me.) As a young adult I guess I was pretty social... more-so after a few drinks. I think one of the reasons for this, though, is because my interests have always seemed to be considerably different than anyone else I knew. And then the older I've gotten the more reclusive I've become to the point where I now seldom leave the house... except to walk the dog.