Hi all,

First of all, thanks for you help.

So lets start with the fact that i have low sex drive, now i know this can come and go in women and it my be a phase but it's definitely there & has been for a couple of months.

Now i am trying to push not wanting to have sex to the back of my mind so i can try keep my partner satisfied. I love him and care about him and want him to be happy. But i am not having orgasms anymore because i am not in the right mind-frame to be having sex.

My boyfriend has picked up on it and he makes it very clear that he has, there has been a few argument about how he thinks that im not interested in him anymore and that is far from the truth.

He has to ask me to have sex, he hates that and i hate that and it's doesn't help the situation and i make him feel like crap when i say no which sometimes does happen, it a endless cycle that i need to get out off!

Can anyone give me any advice please? any ways to get my sex drive back, any advice on how to talk to my boyfriend? Because the longer it goes on the more stressed i become and i'm scared of loosing him.

Thanks,
Jane