I wouldnt get rid of one of my twins because there is a real relationship there...its safe to feel all kinds of ways concerning them and know that theres a biological bond that holds us together and its ok to expect love from them to me and from me to them. T is not mine, never can be and playing this game is getting ridiculas. I believe she has complete faith in therapy, but as a normal %#@&#! up humanbeing I'm beginning to feel that this is becoming a luxury I cannot continue...and T will smile and look caring but she can never ever reach deep inside and fill that hole...