TR, whoever it is that posted that is just looking for help.

Your situation sounds incredibly difficult. I know that I have a hard time when my grandchild does not get the loving and supportive treatment that she deserves from my son, her dad. And all the "talking" in the world on my part does no good.

I am grateful that you are able to be a loving, significant presence in your grandchild's life.

I like the idea of going Christmas shopping-and spending an hour or so in a coffee shop.