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Originally Posted by JaneB1
Now i am trying to push not wanting to have sex to the back of my mind so i can try keep my partner satisfied. I love him and care about him and want him to be happy. But i am not having orgasms anymore because i am not in the right mind-frame to be having sex.
My boyfriend has picked up on it and he makes it very clear that he has, there has been a few argument about how he thinks that im not interested in him anymore and that is far from the truth.
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Anxiety or an unacknowledged resentment toward your bf? Some psych drugs make it harder to orgasm. Don't know how available it is for you but pot can reduce anxiety about sex/be an amplifier. Or perhaps talking to a therapist might help. Sometimes our past sexual experiences can effect our current sex life more than we realize or perhaps venting to a T about your bf in a more general way could be helpful.....
For me, I go through phases concerning how much sex I want. It is good that your bf wants it regularly. My POV is always be there when your bf needs it so he will be there for you when you need it. I like when a partner never says "No".
