I don't mean to sound to forward but an issue is an issue no matter where it's happening. I love my husband but I don't feel the need to have sex everyday. At one time we both seemed happy with once or twice a week. Now he wants it evetyday. So much so that it feels more like a chore than a joy. And since I know it's coming; that moment when he makes his move and is almost always immediately disappointed; I feel stressed.
So I have tried giving in when i'm not up for it and my less responsive behavior upsets him, so then we are both upset. I don't know how to fix this. I feel it's an internal problem with me. I don't want to be expected to do something so personal when I don't want to. That expectation is turning me off.