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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
I am very sorry if I made you feel judged. I didn't mean it that way. I was feeling a little upset thinking that I'm a terrible person who makes bad decisions. That was all on me and not on you. I'm a bleeding heart and try to make sure no one feels bad, including you. I am sorry.  |
Oh, TheSadGirl, it wasn't your post, it was several posts pointing to the same issue after the point where I couldn't edit the title of the whole thread, unless I wrote to a mod. Also I didn't pick the title to be judgemental, I picked it because I think it is a dichotomy that many people can relate to.
It was the drumbeat of criticism for the title that got to me, not your post.
I know everyone means well, I just ended up taking it on the chin again. Not even a post here can be accepted to talk about what is actually on my mind without having to choose words so carefully it becomes impossible to thread a fine line. I mean no one is thinking about my situation and why I would choose that expression when they criticize.