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Originally Posted by hermitbydestiny
You sound frustrated with my comment and I can see why given I did not put your quote in that I was referring to, which is "But it is difficult. Finding people who like and respect me for who I am has always proved challenging."
I can see how my post appeared to blow you off, which was NOT my intent. Thank you for pointing that out; however, using insults as a backlash is not as helpful as asking me to clarify my comment given your understanding, which I would have been glad to have done and would have learned from our encounter what would have worked better for the both of us. Easy peasy.
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Well you directly told me to find a life coach which is not what I asked for in my original post. And you wrote it in a glib tone, as if I NEED a life coach. Who are you to tell me what I need?! And why would you write something like that, without realizing how it comes across as irrelevant to my thread's topic?
I don't NEED a life coach. And, as you stated in your first post in my thread, it's good to "speak that need into action," which I did by expressing my frustration with the glib way you responded in my thread to my original post.
Then you glibly tell me to find a life coach, in so many words, and post a link without any explanation. Yet, you expect me to ask you to explain it to me? That comes across rather arrogant on your part.
If I ever include a link in my response to someone's thread, I always explain why I include the link, out of consideration for the poster. Which you did not do. You assumed for some reason that it was ok to randomly tell me to find a life coach, and then you post some random link about a compassion course which has zero to do with my thread's topic of how I feel when I have to assert myself with strong personalities.
Basically, I found your post glib and arrogant.
That is how I interpreted your post. Then you come back, to admonish me for not politely asking you to clarify your post? Are you serious?
The tone of your post reminds me of a former professor who never took what others said into consideration, because he was only interested in his own opinion as he thought he was right and everyone else was wrong.
The way you posted here multiple times, makes me think that you are not someone who likes to be confronted for the way you communicate with people, when it rubs them the wrong way. When you say something glib that you know people will take offense to. It's very manipulative on your part.
I don't know you or anything about you, so I'm just giving you my feedback based on the two posts you wrote here in my thread.
This thread can be closed as its not helpful to me anymore.