So with ex T and current T I've always had trouble being direct with what I'm saying even though I want to and I know I should be honest. They haven't been big lies that I've made up or anything, mostly just lies of omission or denying something like "no I've never purged", pretending something big didn't happen or completely avoiding topics like abuse and suicide. Another thing I tend to do is minimize things and don't explain the severity of them, like when talking about negative self talk I will give easier examples like "wow you're dumb" instead of something more dark and depressing. I want to finally be honest with current T but I don't know how to bring it up and follow through with what I'm going to say. Have any of you done this and have advice on how to bring it up and come clean?