Okay, I see a whole different angle to look at this from. You may be getting bored. Your guy may be less than Don Juan under the sheets. Some guys expect to be entertained sexually every night . . . like they hired an escort to turn them on. That gets very tedious for a woman.

After the initial honeymoon period, normal couples don't have sex every night. This guy seems to expect it as desert every evening. I can see where you would be getting sick of this as incessant attention seeking. He may know little about the art of seduction, which entails letting desire build over an interval of time. He may be treating you as a machine, where he pushes a button and you're supposed to "turn on." That does gets old. I'ld let him know that - from time to time - the answer is "Not tonight, Honey."