I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for awhile now and the relationship is getting a bit on the rough side and I don't know whether or not if I should stay with him or leave him alone. I know we both have feelings for each other, but as the relationship goes on he is starting to lie and he never keeps his words and he doesn't show any actions to back up his words. I have been hurt by that because I really believed in him and trusted him and I feel the opposite now. I mean he even admitted and said to me that he was taking me for granted and now that he sees I am not going to put up with his bull crap he is going to not do that. Why would he do that to begin with? Another issue is he is very flirtatious in front of me and it makes me feel like I cannot trust him when he is not with me. I know everyone flirts in one way or another, but it is really disrepectful to do it in front of your woman. Another issue I am having is that he always saids he is going to do something and then he never does it and lies about it. Another issue I am having is he is forever sleeping over his friends house, his uncles house, and one time recently some woman's house and each time his excuse was that he was drunk and his boys were drunk so there was no way for him to get home. He is 24 years old. I am upset that he slept over a chick's house that happened to be my neighbor and she gets around oif you know what I mean. I mean he said he didn't do anyhting and I don't know what to believe because you never know, but my thing is why even put yourself in that situation to make me feel the way I do. I would feel the way I do if he hasn't gave me any reasons. Also, another issue I am having with him is that I've started doing what he has done to me. Not on purpose becuase I am not doing tit for tat, but doing it because a part of me is falling out of love with him. When I do something just like he did to me he doesn't like it, but it is alight for him to do it. I am beginning not to care anymore and say the hell with him. I bring up my feelings up to him and he said tonight that he didn't give a [censored] what is bothering me. I mean damn why am I with him. If he doesn't care about what is bothering me then he is not the one for me. I mean I care about him, but I can't keep hurting. I keep seeing him trying to change for the best and he still does things some of the same things over and over again like he wasn't listening to anything I was talking to him about and what he said was a bunch of crap. What I mean by changing is changing the way he treats me. For the most part he has respect for me and treats me so good like a queen, but then the other him treats me like the complete opposite. I broke up with him once and he asked for another chance and I gave him another chance, then he turned sround and did the same [censored] again and then I broke up with him again and he wanted another chance well I am tired of giving him chances. Each day he shows me that he is not ready for a relationship. Another iss ue in the relationship is that I am struggling with money and he is constantly asking me for money and I don't mind giving him money, but he is starting to ask for it all the time. I don't make a lot of money and I am backed up on bills. I mean I can hardly take care of myself financailly and I don't think I can finaicailly raise both of us. I just don't know what to do. Should I try and work it out or just leave him all alone together before it just draggs on and we are both not happy. All I want is to be happy. I am better off being happy by myself because I don't need this extra unnessary stress. If I known what I should do then why don't I just do it. Let him go. It is so much easier said then done because I have feelings for him and I care about him, but I am tired of feeling the way I do. What should I do. Am I wrong for feeling the way I do? Thanks