This is interesting. I often find myself in a total panic about what to wear, I care so much about what she thinks of me but in reality I know she probably doesn't even notice. I have to make sure I don't wear the same thing as I've worn the week before, or even the few previous weeks (I do this in all situations in life though) I can agonise all day about what to wear. If I'm feeling particularly vulnerable, especially around body stuff, I make sure I'm wearing something big and baggy to hide in. I have several jumpers that I've totally unravelled the sleeves on because I pick and fiddle so much during the session.