I have a delima. I have two sexual partners and have had both for the past 10 years. One I love very much and the sex is great. we have great conversation and our interests and goals are completely in line. The other I do not love at all. I do care about him and want him to be happy and such. However, he is an epic underachiever and has no desire to do better. Sex with him is earth shattering!!!! and even that is an understatement. I have orgasms with my primary partner but it is a very safe experience (for lack of a better description). While as with my secondary partner it is multiple mind blowing female ejaculating orgasms that let you know that you have been proper f***ed. I have never had sex like that before meeting him and wish that I could somehow splice the two together. I try to restrict myself from him but end up being a complete ***** if I don't have him. I am marrying partner number 1 in 4 months and have told partner number 2 that we will no longer see each other but I am not sure that I can keep my word on that. Has anyone else experienced something like this situation.