I was going to respond on your other thread yesterday, but this is as good as any So, all this googling stuff... You know what question comes to my mind each time I read about it? Not at all why you do it, what you want to find out etc, but why you feel so conflicted, guilty, ashamed, whatever about googling her? Why is it even a topic to bring up to her? I googled my Ts and virtually everyone I am curious about the way you do and never felt it inappropriate or intrusive - it is the public web and if people put info on there, I think it is a fair assumption that they are comfortable with it even if it's not them who directly shares it in person. There have been quite a few threads about similar topics and there are always some people who seem to think like I do, and others more like you do. So I just wonder what is it that even brings up the thought that looking for whatever information about whoever on the public web is inappropriate? Maybe it's me missing something here...