Everything I tell him I am feeling he turns around and says he is feeling too. When I mention seeing a counselor, he says he should see one too. I can never seem to have anything that is just about me or get support from him. I have had a few breakdowns when we argue and I feel him care but then nothing changes.
I'm sure most of this is my fault. I am changing from becoming a full-time mom and wife to having to find who I am again because I left everything about myself to become those people and now those roles are disappearing. However, everything I do is also supposed to still involve him so I am still not quite finding myself. I feel like I have a tug of war going on inside of me between who I am and who I think I'm supposed to be.