Thank you all for replying.
Stefano, I have been seeing t for almost 2 years now. It has taken a while, but I have started to take a few steps in gaining some control in my life. He doesn't like that with the help of the meds and therapy, that this is happening. He doesn't like not having total control of me, and like t pointed out to me, he is trying his best to get the little control I have gained, back.
Hugs to all of you.