I sometimes feel like i become so preoccupied with being heard and understood and put so much focus and on the relationship with therapist that anything else is becoming less important. i am at the point where working through what is going on in therapy is my main concern. its making me distracted from regular life and takes over my thoughts. i am also struggling in another relationship atm and transfer so much of this on the therapist. its almost as if when i feel the other person is annoyed with me i can sense the therapist annoyance more. if its going better in the other relationship I feel more secure with the t. any thoughts on that?