Mal - you sure have a way with words!

That is a good point, tho. Using that same analogy to talk to a crowd about how they judge others would also be a useful tool.
Someone was telling me about a nun who smells horribly. Apparently she never bathes, is quite filthy, and is the talk of the town. I just thought how terribly sad that she devotes her life to helping others, and that's all they want to talk about.
Anyhoooo...thanks for your pithy input Mal.