I am not jealous of her or feel threatened by her. But my friend is so under Sarah's spell I can't be myself with her. For instance... Sarah is a teacher and thinks that means she is a god. Not only can't I in anyway criticize the teaching profession I cannot tout my own profession or my friends because, teachers are always the best int he world.

But I feel if Sarah didn't exist or was erased from my friend's memory we could be more normal all around and discuss reasonably such issues.

It is Sarah's way or the high way... and my friend who is normally very friend feels she can't be fair to me because Sarah wouldn't take it well and so Sarah will always win.