Speaking as one who spent three years recovering from involvment with a true Narcissist, who really was a sociopath, I have to say that you do not fit the description.
A true Narcissist is incapable of healthy self-examination, is all about him/herself, and will use people to fill their N gratification. You do not seem to be totally like this. As I said, we all are Narcissitic to some degree. Be careful of labeling yourself a N!
Patty