Thanks everyone.

Yes, i have told my T how what she said made me feel but it wasnt helpful, actually it made me feel it would be useless to keep talking about it cause she has her own opinion and i have mine. i dont like what she thinks even though i must admit she might have some points. i dont want it to become a war. i dont think so....

I'll think more about it but i do feel a bit better for sharing it here and letting things out.
Thank you all