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Old Dec 22, 2017, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
well, he has a hole in his septum, and an aneurysm on his aortic arch, and his stamina is very poor as a result. He's had surgery before (he's got scars on his chest), but needs more in the near future.

He's had a job before, but they let him go for one reason or another. I think that they wanted to hire what he does offsite or something. I'm not too clear on that.

He's been applying for any and every job he can right now, and is very discouraged at the refusal to hire based off of his stamina. He's understandably discouraged.

He's doing everything he can to get a job so he can buy the ticket to come and see me. I'm thinking about applying for a second job so I can get more income and maybe find a way to buy a ticket to go see him.

Yes, we've discussed getting married before, but want to wait until we meet first because then we can know for sure.
Although it’s a good idea for you to get a full time job or two jobs, I’d hesitate to spend a ton on a ticket if he doesn’t work. Now if you don’t really pay bills and live at home you should be able to buy a ticket. But what’s then? Where are you going to stay there? With his parents? They might not like it. Questions that I am asking you would be the kind of questions your parents will ask you and what I’d ask my daughter. You have to think this through.
Thanks for this!
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